Friday, September 27, 2013

Chemistry

I believe, we as people all have a certain type of chemistry, and it allows us to interact with other individuals. We all have different personalities, and our chemistry allows for us to have good interaction with certain people, while others we have bad interactions with.
I wouldn't say we just have positive, and negative chemistry, because we're all very different.So it really depends on the people, and how you get along with them.

Chemistry is something that allows us to be best friends with one person, but worst enemies with another.
I really pay attention to chemistry when becoming friends with someone. Of course, becoming friends with someone can be automatic, but for me I have to have a certain feeling, and want to be around someone. Where as other people, I don't have much of an interest in being around them.
For instance, my best friend at my current job,  right from the beginning we had a good chemistry, and now we are best of friends. We don't have many of the same interests, but we get each other, and sometimes, that's all that matters! But meanwhile, there are other people at my job that I don't really talk to because, we just don't click. There are also others where our chemistry doesn't fit right away, but it slowly starts to fit in and we can become friends only after time has passed.



I think that we have more levels of chemistry too, such as having a different level of humor, or even how you act with one person and another.
I have one friend whose humor that is similar to mine, and we are the best of friends, and both make each other laugh like there is no tomorrow! However, I also used to have a friend where we did not have the same humor, and I thought she was being really mean to me, but in reality, she was joking. Our level of humor didn't match, so I just found what she said was insulting. (Which was one of the reasons why we stopped being friends with her).
Chemistry levels also change how you can act towards one person, and a different way to another.

For instance, I had a friend who was silly and cool towards me, but with his other friends he was a total jack-ass with.
I also have a friend who is so far the only person I have been friends with, where we insult each other, but we know we are both joking, and our chemistry matches in that field of humor.

EDIT: As of 2018, I have a job where I have no chemistry with the supervisor. We just don't get each other, and she tends to lash out by being rude to me. She sometimes gets mad at me for being serious when she made "A joke", but what she said wasn't funny! Any time I've tried to joke with her, she looks at me like I have five heads!

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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Sometimes I feel like the only homo in the world

I request, that you play "Only girl in the world" by Rihanna while reading this!



Sometimes I feel like the only homo in the world, and even like I don't exist. The reason for this is as follows...

For starters, LGBT people on tv shows, and even in the public eye are scarce. There are not many lgbt characters on tv, and when there are, their love life is never explored, or they are side characters... I also noticed that most of these shows GET CANCELED!! (EX: Happy Endings and Southland).
Without powerful gay characters, I feel alone because tv isn't pressing on the romance, and stories that I relate to. It's always about heterosexual couples, or women!

The main reason why I feel like the only homo in the world is because everyone around is me is a heterosexual, all of my friends in the real world, are heterosexual except for my friend Victor.
I have on gay cousin on my father's side that I never see.

At work, all of my co-workers were heterosexual as well. When I worked in a mail room, I was the only gay one out of like 8, and I met 16 different people during a 4 month period,  I was the only gay one. (One of them was really rude, and had to ask me how I knew I was gay, if I've never been with a woman. How ignorant can someone be, I should have asked him how he knows he's not gay, if he hasn't been with a man. )
At my second job in a big office, I was yet again the only homosexual, except for this one guy that I didn't see too often..
At my current job in retail I have met over 50 people and only one of them were gay, in which she got let go months ago.

It's just like wherever I go everyone is ALWAYS STRAIGHT, and I'm the only gay one, and it really annoys and bothers me. I feel so isolated and out of place, especially when people are talking about the opposite gender, especially if they ask me if I have a girlfriend, I'll just say no, but I am always too shy to say I like dudes.

I feel like the only homo in the world, because no one else around me is.

I actually have more LGBT friends online, where as in the real world, I know about 1.
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Man proposes to boyfriend in Home Depot with flash mob

Here is a video of a guy who proposes to his boyfriend, via a surprise flash mob in Home Depot!

What do you think of this video?




I skipped all of the dancing and singing until the guy jumped in, I'm just not a fan of the singing and dancing! But the ending was cute.

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Here are my results.

Your Existing Situation Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for his own personal gain.

Your Stress Sources "Needs to meet people who have the same high principals and values as himself, but finds the need unfulfilled. His need to feel dominate and superior leaves him feeling isolated and does not allow for him to give freely of himself. He would like to surrender and let go, but sees that as a weakness he must not give in to. Holding back will allow him to stand out for the crowd and earn a higher status, recognized by others as unique and important."

Your Restrained Characteristics Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.Giving more than he is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels he is being forced into compromising and even his close relationships leave him feeling emotional distant."Seeking to broaden his horizons and believes his hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries he may not be able to do the things he wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore his confidence.""Seeking to broaden his horizons and believes his hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries he may not be able to do the things he wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore his confidence."Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.

Your Desired Objective "Always trying to make a good impression on others, and is constantly watching to see if he is succeeding in this. Is interested in how others react to him; this makes him feel in control. Strategically plans out ways to gain further influence over others and special recognition. Is easily distracted by the pleasingly beautiful and original."

Your Actual Problem "Impressed by unique and one of a kind things, and by people with exceptional personalities. Tries to takes the characteristics he likes in other people and apply it to himself as well as coming across as a unique individual."

The only thing that is not true is that I am not trying to gain respect by anyone for a personal gain. O_o